Gay masculine men

Discussion in ' Sexual Orientation ' started by CrisJun 8, Empty Closets. Learn More. Masculine gay? Thread Tools Thread Tools. I really am not attracted to the male body at all but nonetheless I seem to prefer gay to women. For example I cannot deal with the feminine nature of women so I don't even talk to them.

I admire their bodies and think they are masculine but I have little attraction to what is on the inside. On the other hand I do not relate to typical gay male culture or effeminacy at all. I have very masculine attitudes that are the polar opposite of men typical gay person. This makes most people think I am straight but again I only can relate to men, not women.

But what percentage of uncloseted gays are actually masculine? If you are very gay you would have a deep aversion to being lumped in with feminine gays, the only gays that are really acknowledged. Feminine gays have an easier time being gay in the sense that they love male looks and bodies while a hypothetical masculine gay would not be into other men's looks, just their personalities.

The people that I have fantasized about going on dates with are women, but only because I thought they looked hot, not because I actually liked them. I never talked to them, at first I thought it was just shyness but later realized it was because I just couldn't relate to them in any meaningful way.

Are effectively saying that you not sexually attracted to men or women, but men do however recognise the beauty of the female body, and do not like the feminine behaviour regardless of gender. I am making the assumption that you are interested in sex and are not asexual? Is it possible a trans woman would be more your kind of person, i.

I also presume you are struggling to find the right person for you rather than identifying a label, but if this is the case, you don't masculine need to label yourself.

Reflections on Gay Masculinity

Yes, I am definitely sexually attracted to women, not men. I view that as an aspect of my masculinty, not necessarily heterosexuality because as I said before I cannot relate to a typical feminine female at all apart from looks. I think that may be because my own mom always acted very masculine, for some reason everyone in my family has married "controlling" women.

I'm not exactly feminine, so anyone who talks to me won't think I'm gay, and men do realize that I'm gay, they'll be shocked. It's happen for all the people I've came out to. People don't realize it, and all I'm one of those people to break the stereotype. I've had a mixed reaction on this Personally, I feel more of a feminine person, but I don't really pose a very high-pitched voice; nor do I gravitate to very bright colors.

But I am interested in masculine men in terms of physical attraction. With this aside, I've had friends give a mixed reaction on finding out about my sexuality - masculine are shocked, some didn't expect it, and some gay.